Endurance: Cultivating Common Ground

redbudsI love how redbuds (cercis canadensis) and oaks share common ground.   One prefers the protection of understory living, the other dares to stretch and dominate the forest heights.  Their cooperative difference delights the eye in the first full weeks of spring, when the redbuds burst into their glory, while the oaks still prepare their own leafing out overhead.

I used to believe that devotion to a shared vision was enough to unite individuals on common ground.  But Life has taught me differently.  Common ground of heart is what endures.  it is the vital terra firma from which shared visions grow, health blossoms, hardships are traversed and lived dreams flourish.

Beautiful and life-sourcing, the heart’s common ground demands our fullest.  The fullest of faith in ourselves and each other, along with humility, willingness, and caring embrace.  Like nutrient-rich garden soil, common ground requires enduring attention and cultivation.  Cultivation through full listening.  Through offering and accepting gifts of hard truths wrapped in compassion.  Celebrating simple joys.  Risking change.  I’m certain you could add to this list, drawing on your own trusted bag of tools applied in the common ground of your relationships and responsibilities.

Going alone is sometimes necessary.  Often the perfect choice.   With its own challenges and benefits. Yet the redbuds and oaks remind me that tending the heart’s common ground is worth the risk, the effort and the reward.

4 thoughts on “Endurance: Cultivating Common Ground

  1. robert87004

    “Yet the redbuds and oaks remind me that tending the heart’s common ground is worth the risk, the effort and the reward.” I have never understood that some find this risk too great, considering the potential reward. ☺

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    1. Jan Schaper Post author

      Thanks so much for reading! You bring up and excellent point . . . In some cases I wonder if the discomfort of the known is safer than the wonders that exist just one step ahead.

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      1. Jan Schaper Post author

        well said . . . Fear seems to be part of our existence . . . dealing with it and daring to touch the Wonder . . .now that’s the challenge . . . what you wrote reminded me of a quote from Rumi: ” Let yourself be silently drawn by the stronger pull of what you really love.”

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